Table of Contents
- 1. Atomic Habits
- 1.1. Sources of Atomic Habits book
- 1.2. Title Page
- 1.3. Copyright
- 1.4. Epigraph
- 1.5. Contents
- 1.6. Introduction: My Story
- 1.7. THE FUNDAMENTALS: Why Tiny Changes Make a Big Difference
- 1.7.1. 1: The Surprising Power of Atomic Habits
- 1.7.1.1. Break down, improving everything by 1% is a significant increase
- 1.7.1.2. Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement key
- 1.7.1.3. Small changes doesn’t seem to matter (either good or bad)
- 1.7.1.4. X vs Habits
- 1.7.1.5. Good Habits vs Bad Habits
- 1.7.1.6. Outcomes vs Habits
- 1.7.1.7. Habits define your relationship with time
- 1.7.1.8. Habits are a double-edged sword key
- 1.7.1.9. Habits trigger a phase transition key
- 1.7.1.10. Plateau of Latent Potential
- 1.7.1.11. Goals vs Habits
- 1.7.1.12. Uncertainty when setting goals
- 1.7.2. 2: How Your Habits Shape Your Identity (and Vice Versa)
- 1.7.2.1. Why is so easy to repeat bad habits and so hard to form good ones?
- 1.7.2.2. Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons:
- 1.7.2.3. Three Layers of Behavior Change
- 1.7.2.4. Outcome-based habits vs Identity-based habits
- 1.7.2.5. Identity is a double-edged sword key
- 1.7.2.6. The Two-Step Process To Changing Your Identity
- 1.7.2.7. Your identity emerges out of your habits key
- 1.7.2.8. It is a simple two-step process:
- 1.7.2.9. Reverse engineering (what person do you want to become ⇐ which type of person could get these results?)
- 1.7.2.10. This process can lead to positive beliefs
- 1.7.2.11. Feedback loop between habits ↔ identity
- 1.7.2.12. The Real Reason Habits Matter
- 1.7.3. 3: How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple Steps
- 1.7.3.1. Why Your Brain Builds Habits
- 1.7.3.2. The Science of How Habits Work
- 1.7.3.3. cue, craving, response, and reward (Habit Loop)
- 1.7.3.4. Cue → triggers your brain to initiate a behavior (prediction of a reward)
- 1.7.3.5. Cravings → the motivational force of a habit
- 1.7.3.6. Response → the actual habit (a thought or an action)
- 1.7.3.7. Rewards → end goal of every habit.
- 1.7.3.8. Underline on page 47
- 1.7.3.9. If a behavior is insufficient in any of the four stages, it will not become a habit.
- 1.7.3.10. Underline on page 48
- 1.7.3.11. All behavior is driven by the desire to solve a problem.
- 1.7.3.12. Four Laws of Behavior Change
- 1.7.3.13. Your habits are shaped by the systems in your life.
- 1.7.1. 1: The Surprising Power of Atomic Habits
- 1.8. THE 1ST LAW: Make It Obvious
- 1.8.1. 4: The Man Who Didn’t Look Right
- 1.8.1.1. The human brain is a prediction machine
- 1.8.1.2. Habits automatize the job of filtering cues and predicting
- 1.8.1.3. Practice → predict subconsciously outcomes based on cues
- 1.8.1.4. your brain encodes the lessons learned through experience.
- 1.8.1.5. This process is innate, happens all the time and sometimes not explainable
- 1.8.1.6. you don’t need to be aware of the cue for a habit to begin
- 1.8.1.7. If a habit remains mindless, you can’t expect to improve it.
- 1.8.1.8. Pointing-and-Calling
- 1.8.1.9. Habits lead to overlook things
- 1.8.1.10. Habit Scorecard
- 1.8.2. 5: The Best Way to Start a New Habit
- 1.8.3. 6: Motivation Is Overrated; Environment Often Matters More
- 1.8.3.1. Your habits change depending on the room you are in and the cues in front of you
- 1.8.3.2. How to Design your Environment for Success
- 1.8.3.3. The Context is the Cue
- 1.8.3.4. It is easier to associate a new habit with a new context than to build a new habit in the face of competing cues.
- 1.8.3.5. Underline on page 78
- 1.8.3.6. Don’t mix the context of several habits: habits compete, and the easier one will win
- 1.8.3.7. Stable and predictable behavior ⇔ Stable and predictable environment
- 1.8.4. 7: The Secret to Self-Control
- 1.8.4.1. addictions could spontaneously dissolve if there was a radical change in the environment.
- 1.8.4.2. Behavior change techniques can backfire when the environmental cues reappear
- 1.8.4.3. “cue-induced wanting”
- 1.8.4.4. You can break a habit, but you’re unlikely to forget it (even if you don’t do it for a while)
- 1.8.4.5. Reduce exporsure to the cue that triggers the habits
- 1.8.4.6. Inversion of the 1st law: Make it invisible
- 1.8.4.7. Self-control is a short-term strategy, not a long-term one.
- 1.8.1. 4: The Man Who Didn’t Look Right
- 1.9. THE 2ND LAW: Make It Attractive
- 1.9.1. 8: How to Make a Habit Irresistible
- 1.9.2. 9: The Role of Family and Friends in Shaping Your Habits
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- 1.9.3. 10: How to Find and Fix the Causes of Your Bad Habits
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- 1.10. THE 3RD LAW: Make It Easy
- 1.10.1. 11: Walk Slowly, but Never Backward
- 1.10.2. 12: The Law of Least Effort
- 1.10.2.1. our real motivation is to be lazy and to do what is convenient.
- 1.10.2.2. Law of Least Effort
- 1.10.2.3. Look at any behavior that fills up much of your life and you’ll see that it can be performed with very low levels of motivation.
- 1.10.2.4. every habit is just an obstacle to getting what you really want.
- 1.10.2.5. The greater the obstacle—that is (more friction), the more difficult the habit
- 1.10.2.6. If you can make your good habits more convenient, you’ll be more likely to follow through on them.
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- 1.10.3. 13: How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute Rule
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- 1.10.4. 14: How to Make Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible
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- 1.11. THE 4TH LAW: Make It Satisfying
- 1.11.1. 15: The Cardinal Rule of Behavior Change
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- 1.12. ADVANCED TACTICS: How to Go from Being Merely Good to Being Truly Great endofnotes
- 1.13. Appendix
- 1.14. Acknowledgments
- 1.15. Notes
- 1.16. Index
- 1.17. About the Author
- 1.18. The Habits Cheat Sheet
- 1.18.1. The 1st Law: Make It Obvious (Cue)
- 1.18.2. The 2nd Law: Make It Attractive (Craving)
- 1.18.3. The 3rd Law: Make It Easy (Response)
- 1.18.4. The 4th Law: Make It Satisfying (Reward)
- 1.18.5. Inversion of the 1st law: Make it invisible (Cue)
- 1.18.6. Inversion of the 2nd law: Make it unattractive (Craving)
- 1.18.7. Inversion of the 3rd law: Make it difficult (Response)
- 1.18.8. Inversion of the 4th law: Make it unsatisfying (Reward)
- 1.19. The Problem With Building Good Habits | Stephan Joppich
1. Atomic Habits
1.1. Sources of Atomic Habits book
https://www.reddit.com/r/BettermentBookClub/comments/obdygp/tiny_habits_is_what_i_wanted_atomic_habits_to_be/
{Atomic Habits} collects and summarizes the lessons from several other books. James Clear did not do the original research, instead he created an excellent primer on the subject of habit formation. If you read only one book, read Atomic Habits.
To get a more in depth understanding of the principles and techniques, read the following in the order listed.
- {Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg}
- {Smarter Faster Better by Charles Duhigg}
- {Eat That Frog by Brian Tracy}
- {The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg}
- {The Now Habit by Neil Fiore}
1.2. Title Page
1.3. Copyright
1.4. Epigraph
1.5. Contents
1.6. Introduction: My Story
1.7. THE FUNDAMENTALS: Why Tiny Changes Make a Big Difference
1.7.1. 1: The Surprising Power of Atomic Habits
1.7.1.1. Break down, improving everything by 1% is a significant increase
if you broke down everything you could think of that goes into riding a bike, and then improve it by 1 percent, you will get a significant increase when you put them all together
1.7.1.2. Habits are the compound interest of self-improvement key
1.7.1.3. Small changes doesn’t seem to matter (either good or bad)
We often dismiss small changes because they don’t seem to matter very much in the moment.
The slow pace of transformation also makes it easy to let a bad habit slide.
1.7.1.4. X vs Habits
1.7.1.5. Good Habits vs Bad Habits
1.7.1.6. Outcomes vs Habits
Your outcomes are a lagging measure of your habits.
1.7.1.7. Habits define your relationship with time
Good habits make time your ally. Bad habits make time your enemy.
1.7.1.8. Habits are a double-edged sword key
Bad habits can cut you down just as easily as good habits can build you up, which is why understanding the details is crucial.
1.7.1.9. Habits trigger a phase transition key
Habits often appear to make no difference until you cross a critical threshold and unlock a new level of performance.
why it is so hard to build habits that last? People make a few small changes, fail to see a tangible result, and decide to stop.
1.7.1.10. Plateau of Latent Potential
If you find yourself struggling to build a good habit or break a bad one, it is not because you have lost your ability to improve.
It is often because you have not yet crossed the Plateau of Latent Potential.
1.7.1.11. Goals vs Habits
- Goals are about the results you want to achieve. Systems are about the processes that lead to those results.
- Goals are good for setting a direction, but systems are best for making progress.
- Problems arise when you spend too much time thinking about your goals and not enough time designing your systems.
- You’re continually putting happiness off until the next milestone. (“Once I reach my goal, then I’ll be happy.”)
- Goals create an “either-or” conflict: either you achieve your goal and are successful or you fail and you are a disappointment.
1.7.1.12. Uncertainty when setting goals
It is unlikely that your actual path through life will match the exact journey you had in mind when you set out. It makes no sense to restrict your satisfaction to one scenario when there are many paths to success.
1.7.2. 2: How Your Habits Shape Your Identity (and Vice Versa)
1.7.2.1. Why is so easy to repeat bad habits and so hard to form good ones?
1.7.2.2. Changing our habits is challenging for two reasons:
- we try to change the wrong thing and (this chapter)
- we try to change our habits in the wrong way. (following chapters)
1.7.2.3. Three Layers of Behavior Change
- First Layer: Outcomes → What you get
Changing your outcomes. This level is concerned with changing your results:
Most of the goals you set are associated with this level of change.
- Second Layer: Process → What you do
Changing your process. This level is concerned with changing your habits and systems:
Most of the habits you build are associated with this level.
- Third Layer: Identity → What you are
Changing your identity. Most of the beliefs, assumptions, and biases you hold are associated with this level.
- Outcomes, Processes, Identity
- Outcomes are about what you get.
- Processes are about what you do.
- Identity is about what you believe.
- Outcomes are about what you get.
1.7.2.4. Outcome-based habits vs Identity-based habits
- What people usually do
set goals, determine the actions they should take to achieve them without considering the beliefs that drive their actions.
They never shift the way they look at themselves ⇒ old identity can sabotage new plans for change.
- Behind every system of actions are a system of beliefs. key
- The ultimate form of intrinsic motivation is when a habit becomes part of your identity. key
- I’m the type of person who wants this.
- I’m the type of person who is this.
- I’m the type of person who wants this.
- Pride of your identify maintains habits
The more pride you have in a particular aspect of your identity, the more motivated you will be to maintain the habits associated with it.
- Motivation only starts habits, they stick when become part of your identity
You might start a habit because of motivation, but the only reason you’ll stick with one is that it becomes part of your identity.
- The goal is not to learn an instrument, the goal is to become a musician.
1.7.2.5. Identity is a double-edged sword key
Since too
When working against you, though, identity change can be a curse.
Once you have adopted an identity, it can be easy to let your allegiance to it impact your ability to change.
Many people walk through life in a cognitive slumber, blindly following the norms attached to their identity.
When you have repeated a story to yourself for years, it is easy to slide into these mental grooves and accept them as a fact.
- Resistence of new actions (“that’s not who I am.”)
- The more deeply a thought or action is tied to your identity, the more difficult it is to change
- Substitutes to creating your identity
believe what your culture believes (group identity) or to do what upholds your self-image (personal identity), even if it’s wrong.
- Habit failure (short run because lack of energy vs long run because identity doesn’t match)
On any given day, you may struggle with your habits because you’re too busy or too tired or too overwhelmed…
Over the long run, however your self-image gets in the way.
- Progress requires unlearning → dettachment from your identity
you can’t get too attached to one version of your identity.
1.7.2.6. The Two-Step Process To Changing Your Identity
1.7.2.7. Your identity emerges out of your habits key
Every belief, including those about yourself, is learned and conditioned through experience.
- Your habits are how you embody your identity.
- Repetition reinforces habits
The more you repeat a behavior, the more you reinforce the identity associated with that behavior.
- Identity is evidence-based
Whatever your identity is right now, you only believe it because you have proof of it.
The more evidence you have for a belief, the more strongly you will believe it.
- Habits are your most important actions since they are the most frequent actions
your habits are not the only actions that influence your identity, but by virtue of their frequency they are usually the most important ones.
- Each habit is like a suggestion/vote:
“Hey, maybe this is who I am.”
Every action you take is a vote for the type of person you wish to
become.
- The most practical way to change who you are is to change what you do.
- Each time you practice the violin, you are a musician.
- Each habit not only gets results but also teaches you to trust yourself.
You start to believe you can actually accomplish these things.
- Of course, it works the opposite way, too.
1.7.2.8. It is a simple two-step process:
- Decide the type of person you want to be.
- Prove it to yourself with small wins.
1.7.2.9. Reverse engineering (what person do you want to become ⇐ which type of person could get these results?)
many people aren’t sure where to begin —but they do know what kind of results they want:
Start there and work backward from the results you want to the type of person who could get those results.
1.7.2.10. This process can lead to positive beliefs
1.7.2.11. Feedback loop between habits ↔ identity
Your habits shape your identity, and your identity shapes your habits.
1.7.2.12. The Real Reason Habits Matter
because they help you become the type of person you wish to be.
- Identity change is the North Star of habit change.
- “Are you becoming the type of person you want to become?”
The first step is not what or how, but who. You need to know who you want to be.
- You are continously shaping your identity
You have the power to change your beliefs about yourself.
Your identity is not set in stone.
You have a choice in every moment.
You can choose the identity you want to reinforce today with the habits you choose today.
- you become your habits.
- they are not about having something. They are about becoming someone.
- your habits matter because they help you become the type of person you wish to be.
1.7.3. 3: How to Build Better Habits in 4 Simple Steps
1.7.3.1. Why Your Brain Builds Habits
- Feedback loop (try, fail, learn, try differently) reinforces actions ⇒ habits
With practice, the useless movements fade away and the useful actions get reinforced.
That’s a habit forming.
- Habits are automatic solutions to repeated problems
Whenever you face a problem repeatedly, your brain begins to
automate the process of solving it. Your habits are just a series of
automatic solutions
- Habit creation ⇒ brain activity decrease (filter out noise) by creating heuristics
As habits are created, the level of activity in the brain decreases.
You learn to lock in on the cues that predict success and tune out everything else.
no longer a need to analyze every angle of a situation.
Your brain skips the process of trial and error and creates a mental rule: if this, then that. (heuristic)
- Habits are mental shortcuts learned from experience.
- a memory of the steps you previously followed to solve a problem in the past.
- The conscious mind is the bottleneck of the brain (only pay attention to 1 problem at a time)
- Relocates conscious attention for essential tasks
Habits reduce cognitive load and free up mental capacity, so you can allocate your attention to other tasks.
- Habits are mental shortcuts learned from experience.
- Habits create freedom…
Habits do not restrict freedom. They create it.
In fact, the people who don’t have their habits handled are often the ones with the least amount of freedom.
- …by relieving the burden of decision
If you’re always being forced to make decisions about simple tasks—when should I work out, where do I go to write, when do I pay the bills—then you have less time for freedom.
It’s only by making the fundamentals of life easier that you can create the mental space needed for free thinking and creativity.
1.7.3.2. The Science of How Habits Work
1.7.3.3. cue, craving, response, and reward (Habit Loop)
- Noticing, wanting, obtaining → satisfation and learning
- The cue is about noticing the reward
- The craving is about wanting the reward
- The response is about obtaining the reward
- We chase rewards because they serve two purposes:
- they satisfy us and
- they teach us.
- they satisfy us and
- The cue is about noticing the reward
- Summary
In summary, the cue triggers a craving, which motivates a response, which provides a reward, which satisfies the craving and, ultimately, becomes associated with the cue.
Together, these four steps form a neurological feedback loop—cue
- Habit Loop
This cycle is known as the habit loop.
- The Habit Loop is always running
This four-step process is an endless feedback loop that is running and active
during every moment you are alive
1.7.3.4. Cue → triggers your brain to initiate a behavior (prediction of a reward)
- Your mind is continuously searching for hints of rewards
Your mind is continuously analyzing your internal and external environment for hints of where rewards are located.
Because the cue is the first indication that we’re close to a reward, it naturally leads to a craving.
- Cues are interpreted patterns
Cues are meaningless until they are interpreted.
1.7.3.5. Cravings → the motivational force of a habit
- Without some level of motivation or desire we have no reason to act.
- What you crave is not the habit itself but the change in state it delivers.
1.7.3.6. Response → the actual habit (a thought or an action)
1.7.3.7. Rewards → end goal of every habit.
1.7.3.8. Underline on page 47
Feelings of pleasure and disappointment are part of the feedback mechanism that helps your brain distinguish useful actions from useless ones.
Rewards close the feedback loop and complete the habit cycle.
1.7.3.9. If a behavior is insufficient in any of the four stages, it will not become a habit.
1.7.3.10. Underline on page 48
The problem phase includes the cue and the
craving, and it is when you realize that something needs to change. The
solution phase includes the response and the reward, and it is when
you take action and achieve the change you desire.
1.7.3.11. All behavior is driven by the desire to solve a problem.
Either notice something good and you want to obtain it or experiencing pain and you want to relieve it.
1.7.3.12. Four Laws of Behavior Change
- Direct Laws
The 1st law (Cue): Make it obvious.
The 2nd law (Craving): Make it attractive.
The 3rd law (Response): Make it easy.
The 4th law (Reward): Make it satisfying.
- Inverted Laws
Inversion of the 1st law (Cue): Make it invisible.
Inversion of the 2nd law (Craving): Make it unattractive.
Inversion of the 3rd law (Response): Make it difficult.
Inversion of the 4th law (Reward): Make it unsatisfying.
1.7.3.13. Your habits are shaped by the systems in your life.
1.8. THE 1ST LAW: Make It Obvious
1.8.1. 4: The Man Who Didn’t Look Right
1.8.1.1. The human brain is a prediction machine
It is continuously taking in your surroundings and analyzing the information it comes across.
1.8.1.2. Habits automatize the job of filtering cues and predicting
Whenever you experience something repeatedly your brain begins noticing
what is important,
sorting through the details and
highlighting the relevant cues, and
cataloging that information for future use.
1.8.1.3. Practice → predict subconsciously outcomes based on cues
With enough practice, you can pick up on the cues that predict certain outcomes without consciously thinking about it.
1.8.1.4. your brain encodes the lessons learned through experience.
1.8.1.5. This process is innate, happens all the time and sometimes not explainable
We can’t always explain what it is we are learning, but learning is happening all along the way, and your ability to notice the relevant cues in a given situation is the foundation for every habit you have.
1.8.1.6. you don’t need to be aware of the cue for a habit to begin
1.8.1.7. If a habit remains mindless, you can’t expect to improve it.
As the psychologist Carl Jung said,
“Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate.”
1.8.1.8. Pointing-and-Calling
is a safety system designed to reduce mistakes.
It seems silly, but it works incredibly well.
- proceed through a ritual of pointing at different objects and calling out commands.
- Every detail is identified, pointed at, and named aloud.
- Raise awareness from nonconscious to conscious
Pointing-and-Calling is so effective because it raises the level of
awareness from a nonconscious habit to a more conscious level.
1.8.1.9. Habits lead to overlook things
when we’ve done something a thousand times before, we begin to overlook things. We assume that the next time will be just like the last.
We’re so used to doing what we’ve always done that we don’t stop to question whether it’s the right thing to do at all.
1.8.1.10. Habit Scorecard
- Pointing-and-Calling applied to habits
One of our greatest challenges in changing habits is maintaining awareness of what we are actually doing.
This helps explain why the consequences of bad habits can sneak up on us.
- Make a list and classify your habits (good, bad, neutral)
- The marks you give to a particular habit will depend on your situation and your goals.
- There are no good habits or bad habits: only effective habits at solving problems
- All habits serve you in some way -even the bad ones- which is why you repeat them.
- categorize your habits by how they will benefit you in the long run.
- good habits will have net positive outcomes. Bad habits have net negative outcomes.
- “Does this behavior help me become the type of person I wish to be? Does this habit cast a vote for or against my desired identity?”
- Notice without judgement, no need to change as you create it
As you create your Habits Scorecard, there is no need to change anything at first.
The goal is to simply notice what is actually going on.
Observe your thoughts and actions without judgment or internal criticism.
Don’t blame yourself for your faults.
Don’t praise yourself for your successes.
- The first step to changing bad habits is to be on the lookout for them
- Use actual Pointing-and-Calling if you need to
If you feel like you need extra help, then you can try Pointing-and-Calling in your own life.
Hearing your bad habits spoken aloud makes the consequences seem more real.
1.8.2. 5: The Best Way to Start a New Habit
1.8.2.1. Implementation intention
a plan you make beforehand about when and where to act
how you intend to implement a particular habit.
“When situation X arises, I will perform response Y.”
- Anchor a habit to a specific time and location
- By making a plan you’re more likely to actually perform a new habit
- Often lack of motivation is really lack of clarity
- I will [BEHAVIOR] at [TIME] in [LOCATION].
- Try start of week/month/year
If you aren’t sure when to start your habit, try the first day of the week, month, or year.
People are more likely to take action at those times because hope is usually higher.
- Being specific about what you want and how helps you say no to things that derail progress
1.8.2.2. Habit Stacking
Rather than pairing your new habit with a particular time and location, you pair it with a current habit.
“After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].”
- Tie your desired behavior into something you already do each day
- Rules of thumb (When X then Y)
- Exercise. When I see a set of stairs, I will take them instead of using the elevator.
- Social skills. When I walk into a party, I will introduce myself to someone I don’t know yet.
- Finances. When I want to buy something over $100, I will wait twenty-four hours before purchasing.
- Healthy eating. When I serve myself a meal, I will always put veggies on my plate first.
- Minimalism. When I buy a new item, I will give something away. (“One in, one out.”)
- Mood. When the phone rings, I will take one deep breath and smile before answering.
- Forgetfulness. When I leave a public place, I will check the table and chairs to make sure I don’t leave anything behind.
- Exercise. When I see a set of stairs, I will take them instead of using the elevator.
- Specific, immediately actionable cues
Habit stacking works best when the cue is highly specific and immediately actionable. Many people select cues that are too vague.
1.8.3. 6: Motivation Is Overrated; Environment Often Matters More
1.8.3.1. Your habits change depending on the room you are in and the cues in front of you
1.8.3.2. How to Design your Environment for Success
live and work in environments that are filled with productive cues and devoid of unproductive ones.
- If you want to make a habit a big (small) part of your life, make the cue a big (small) part of your environment
- We rarely do it ⇒ lots of hidden potential
Environment design is powerful not only because it influences how we engage with the world but also because we rarely do it.
Most people live in a world others have created for them.
- Become the architect of your life, designer, not only consumer
Environment design allows you to take back control and become the architect of your life.
Be the designer of your world and not merely the consumer of it.
- dotfiles are your (digital) environment
1.8.3.3. The Context is the Cue
The cues that trigger a habit can start out very specific, but over time
your habits become associated not with a single trigger but with the
entire context surrounding the behavior.
- Our behavior is not defined by the objects in the environment but by our relationship to them
Stop thinking about your environment as filled with objects.
Start thinking about it as filled with relationships.
Think in terms of how you interact with the spaces around you.
- Use systems thinking to design your environment
1.8.3.4. It is easier to associate a new habit with a new context than to build a new habit in the face of competing cues.
1.8.3.5. Underline on page 78
You aren’t battling old environmental cues,
1.8.3.6. Don’t mix the context of several habits: habits compete, and the easier one will win
Whenever possible, avoid mixing the context of one habit with another.
When you start mixing contexts, you’ll start mixing habits and the easier ones will usually win out.
«Evolutionary view of habits»
1.8.3.7. Stable and predictable behavior ⇔ Stable and predictable environment
1.8.4. 7: The Secret to Self-Control
1.8.4.1. addictions could spontaneously dissolve if there was a radical change in the environment.
1.8.4.2. Behavior change techniques can backfire when the environmental cues reappear
1.8.4.3. “cue-induced wanting”
an external trigger causes a compulsive craving to repeat a bad habit.
Once you notice something, you begin to want it.
This process is happening all the time—often without us realizing it.
1.8.4.4. You can break a habit, but you’re unlikely to forget it (even if you don’t do it for a while)
1.8.4.5. Reduce exporsure to the cue that triggers the habits
A more reliable approach is to cut bad habits off at the source.
One of the most practical ways to eliminate a bad habit is to reduce
exposure to the cue that causes it.
1.8.4.6. Inversion of the 1st law: Make it invisible
1.8.4.7. Self-control is a short-term strategy, not a long-term one.
1.9. THE 2ND LAW: Make It Attractive
1.9.1. 8: How to Make a Habit Irresistible
1.9.1.1. supernormal stimulus
is a heightened version of reality and it elicits a stronger response than usual.
1.9.1.2. Habits are a dopamine-driven feedback loop.
- dopamine is released not only when you experience pleasure, but also when you anticipate it …
- … but it is the anticipation of a reward—not the fulfillment of it—that gets us to take action.
- The reward system is the same in both cases
the reward system that is activated in the brain when you receive a reward is the same system that is activated when you anticipate a reward.
- The anticipation can feel better than attainment
1.9.1.3. The Dopamine Spike
FIGURE 9: Before a habit is learned (A), dopamine is released when the
reward is experienced for the first time. The next time around (B), dopamine
rises before taking action, immediately after a cue is recognized. This spike
leads to a feeling of desire and a craving to take action whenever the cue is
spotted. Once a habit is learned, dopamine will not rise when a reward is
experienced because you already expect the reward. However, if you see a
cue and expect a reward, but do not get one, then dopamine will drop in
disappointment (C). The sensitivity of the dopamine response can clearly be
seen when a reward is provided late (D). First, the cue is identified and
dopamine rises as a craving builds. Next, a response is taken but the reward
does not come as quickly as expected and dopamine begins to drop. Finally,
when the reward comes a little later than you had hoped, dopamine spikes
again. It is as if the brain is saying, “See! I knew I was right. Don’t forget to
repeat this action next time.”
1.9.1.4. How to use Tempation Bundling to make your habits more attractive
- Temptation bundling
linking an action you want to do with an action you need to do.
- Premack’s Principle.
“more probable behaviors will reinforce less probable behaviors.”
- Desire drives behavior (craving → response)
Desire is the engine that drives behavior
Every action is taken because of the anticipation that precedes it
It is the craving that leads to the response
1.9.1.5. Habit Stacking + Tempation Bundling
The habit stacking + temptation bundling formula is:
- After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [HABIT I NEED].
- After [HABIT I NEED], I will [HABIT I WANT].
1.9.2. 9: The Role of Family and Friends in Shaping Your Habits
1.9.2.1. Underline on page 98
whatever
habits are normal in your culture are among the most attractive
behaviors you’ll find.
1.9.2.2. Underline on page 98
one of the deepest human desires is to belong.
1.9.2.3. Underline on page 99
We imitate the habits of three groups in particular:
- The close.
- The many.
- The powerful.
1.9.2.4. Underline on page 99
- Imitating the Close
1.9.2.5. Underline on page 99
We pick up habits from the people around us.
1.9.2.6. Underline on page 100
As a general rule, the closer we are to someone, the more likely we
are to imitate some of their habits.
1.9.2.7. Underline on page 100
One of the most effective things you can do to build better habits is
to join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.
1.9.2.8. Underline on page 100
New habits seem achievable when you see others doing them every
day.
1.9.2.9. Underline on page 100
Surround yourself
with people who have the habits you want to have yourself. You’ll rise
together.
1.9.2.10. Underline on page 101
Join a culture where (1) your desired behavior is the normal
behavior and (2) you already have something in common with the
group.
1.9.2.11. Underline on page 101
Nothing sustains motivation better than belonging to the tribe.
1.9.2.12. Underline on page 101
Previously, you were on
your own. Your identity was singular.
1.9.2.13. Underline on page 101
When you join a book club or a band or a
cycling group, your identity becomes linked to those around you.
1.9.2.14. Underline on page 101
Growth and change is no longer an individual pursuit.
1.9.2.15. Underline on page 101
The shared identity begins to
reinforce your personal identity. This is why remaining part of a group
after achieving a goal is crucial to maintaining your habits. It’s
friendship and community that embed a new identity and help
behaviors last over the long run.
1.9.2.16. Underline on page 103
Whenever we are unsure how to act, we look to the group to guide
our behavior. We are constantly scanning our environment and
wondering, “What is everyone else doing?”
1.9.2.17. Underline on page 103
It’s usually a smart strategy. There is
evidence in numbers.
But there can be a downside.
1.9.2.18. Underline on page 103
There is tremendous internal pressure to
comply with the norms of the group. The reward of being accepted is
often greater than the reward of winning an argument, looking smart,
or finding truth. Most days, we’d rather be wrong with the crowd than
be right by ourselves.
1.9.2.19. Underline on page 103
The human mind knows how to get along with others. It wants to
get along with others. This is our natural mode. You can override it—
you can choose to ignore the group or to stop caring what other people
think—but it takes work. Running against the grain of your culture
requires extra effort.
1.9.2.20. Underline on page 103
When changing your habits means challenging the tribe, change is
unattractive. When changing your habits means fitting in with the
tribe, change is very attractive.
1.9.2.21. Underline on page 104
- Imitating the Powerful
1.9.2.22. Underline on page 104
Once we fit in, we
start looking for ways to stand out.
1.9.2.23. Underline on page 104
these habits and behaviors maintained their attractiveness, in part,
because they were valued by their culture.
1.9.3. 10: How to Find and Fix the Causes of Your Bad Habits
1.9.3.1. Underline on page 107
You think you are quitting something, but you’re not quitting
anything because cigarettes do nothing for you.
You think smoking is something you need to do to be social, but
it’s not. You can be social without smoking at all.
You think smoking is about relieving stress, but it’s not. Smoking
does not relieve your nerves, it destroys them.
1.9.3.2. Underline on page 107
“Get
it clearly into your mind,” he says. “You are losing nothing and you are
making marvelous positive gains not only in health, energy and money
but also in confidence, self-respect, freedom and, most important of
all, in the length and quality of your future life.”
1.9.3.3. Underline on page 110
Now, imagine changing just one word: You don’t “have” to. You
“get” to.
1.9.3.4. Underline on page 111
Meditation.
1.9.3.5. Underline on page 111
each interruption gives you a chance to
practice returning to your breath. Distraction is a good thing because
you need distractions to practice meditation.
1.9.3.6. Underline on page 111
Pregame jitters.
1.9.3.7. Underline on page 112
You can reframe “I am nervous” to “I am excited
and I’m getting an adrenaline rush to help me concentrate.”
1.9.3.8. Underline on page 112
motivation
ritual. You simply practice associating your habits with something you
enjoy, then you can use that cue whenever you need a bit of
motivation.
1.9.3.9. Underline on page 112
You can adapt this strategy for nearly any purpose. Say you want to
feel happier in general. Find something that makes you truly happy—
1.9.3.10. Underline on page 112
bath—and then create a short
routine that you perform every time before you do the thing you love.
1.9.3.11. Underline on page 112
It becomes a cue that means feeling happy.
1.9.3.12. Underline on page 113
Once a habit has
been built, the cue can prompt a craving, even if it has little to do with
the original situation.
1.10. THE 3RD LAW: Make It Easy
1.10.1. 11: Walk Slowly, but Never Backward
1.10.1.1. Tinkering a lot (taking action) over designing to perfection (being in motion)
all the best photos were produced by the quantity group.
these students were busy taking photos, experimenting with composition and lighting, testing out various methods in the darkroom, and learning from their mistakes.
In the process of creating hundreds of photos, they honed their skills.
Meanwhile, the quality group sat around speculating about perfection.
In the end, they had little to show for their efforts other than unverified theories and one mediocre photo.
- Being in motion
When you’re in motion, you’re planning and strategizing and learning.
Those are all good things, but they don’t produce a result.
- Taking action
Action, on the other hand, is the type of behavior that will deliver an outcome.
- why do we do it?
Sometimes we actually need to plan or learn more.
Often it allows us to feel like we’re making progress without running the risk of failure.
- Motion instead of action is delaying failure, illusion of progress, and procastination
- When preparation becomes a form of procrastination, you need to change something.
1.10.1.2. Habits take a fixed amount of repetitions rather than time
That means habits that you perform more often will be caught earlier
1.10.2. 12: The Law of Least Effort
1.10.2.1. our real motivation is to be lazy and to do what is convenient.
this is a smart strategy, not a dumb one.
1.10.2.2. Law of Least Effort
when deciding between two similar options, people will naturally gravitate toward the option that requires the least amount of work.
1.10.2.3. Look at any behavior that fills up much of your life and you’ll see that it can be performed with very low levels of motivation.
1.10.2.4. every habit is just an obstacle to getting what you really want.
1.10.2.5. The greater the obstacle—that is (more friction), the more difficult the habit
1.10.2.6. If you can make your good habits more convenient, you’ll be more likely to follow through on them.
1.10.2.7. Underline on page 125
On the tough days, it’s crucial to have as many things
working in your favor as possible so that you can overcome the
challenges life naturally throws your way.
1.10.2.8. Underline on page 125
The idea behind make it
easy is not to only do easy things. The idea is to make it as easy as
possible in the moment to do things that payoff in the long run.
1.10.2.9. Underline on page 125
You can do it, but it requires
a lot of effort and increases the tension in your life.
1.10.2.10. Underline on page 125
Rather than trying to overcome the friction in your life, you reduce it.
1.10.2.11. Underline on page 125
when deciding where to practice a new habit, it is
best to choose a place that is already along the path of your daily
routine. Habits are easier to build when they fit into the flow of your
life.
1.10.2.12. Underline on page 126
Too often, we try to start habits in high-friction
environments.
1.10.2.13. Underline on page 126
‘lean
production,’ relentlessly looking to remove waste of all kinds from the
production process,
1.10.2.14. Underline on page 126
addition by subtraction.* The
Japanese companies looked for every point of friction in the
manufacturing process and eliminated it.
1.10.2.15. Underline on page 126
when we remove
the points of friction that sap our time and energy, we can achieve
more with less effort. (This is one reason tidying up can feel so good:
we are simultaneously moving forward and lightening the cognitive
load our environment places on us.)
1.10.2.16. Underline on page 127
create an environment where doing the right
thing is as easy as possible.
1.10.2.17. Underline on page 127
finding ways to reduce the friction associated with our
good habits and increase the friction associated with our bad ones.
1.10.2.18. Underline on page 128
“perfect time to clean the toilet is right before you wash yourself in
the shower anyway.”)
1.10.2.19. Underline on page 128
Whenever you organize a space for its intended purpose, you are
priming it to make the next action easy.
1.10.2.20. Underline on page 128
You can also invert this principle and prime the environment to
make bad behaviors difficult.
1.10.2.21. Underline on page 129
If that doesn’t do it, you can take it a step further.
1.10.2.22. Underline on page 129
You can be sure you’ll only take it out when you really want
to watch something. The greater the friction, the less likely the habit.
1.10.2.23. Underline on page 129
It is remarkable how little friction is required to prevent unwanted
behavior.
1.10.2.24. Underline on page 129
“How can we design a world where it’s easy to do what’s
right?” Redesign your life so the actions that matter most are also the
actions that are easiest to do.
1.10.3. 13: How to Stop Procrastinating by Using the Two-Minute Rule
1.10.3.1. Underline on page 131
Habits are automatic choices that influence the
1.10.3.2. Underline on page 132
conscious decisions that follow.
1.10.3.3. Underline on page 132
a habit can be completed in just a
few seconds, but it can also shape the actions that you take for minutes
or hours afterward.
1.10.3.4. Underline on page 132
It seems to be easier to continue what you are already doing
than to start doing something different.
1.10.3.5. Underline on page 132
there are a handful of moments that deliver an outsized
impact.
1.10.3.6. Underline on page 132
decisive moments.
1.10.3.7. Underline on page 133
walking into a restaurant is a decisive moment because it
determines what you’ll be eating for lunch.
1.10.3.8. Underline on page 133
Your options are constrained by
what’s available. They are shaped by the first choice.
1.10.3.9. Underline on page 134
Even when you know you should start small, it’s easy to start too big.
When you dream about making a change, excitement inevitably takes
over and you end up trying to do too much too soon.
1.10.3.10. Underline on page 134
Two-Minute Rule,
which states, “When you start a new habit, it should take less than two
minutes to do.”
1.10.3.11. Underline on page 134
The idea is to make your habits as easy as possible to start.
1.10.3.12. Underline on page 134
once you’ve started doing the right thing, it is much easier to
continue doing it.
1.10.3.13. Underline on page 134
A new habit should not feel like a challenge.
1.10.3.14. Underline on page 134
What you want is a “gateway habit” that naturally leads you
down a more productive path.
1.10.3.15. Underline on page 135
the point is not
to do one thing. The point is to master the habit of showing up.
1.10.3.16. Underline on page 135
a habit must be established before it can be improved.
1.10.3.17. Underline on page 135
The more you ritualize the beginning of a process, the
more likely it becomes that you can slip into the state of deep focus
that is required to do great things.
1.10.3.18. Underline on page 135
You may not be able to automate the whole process, but
you can make the first action mindless. Make it easy to start and the
rest will follow.
1.10.3.19. Underline on page 135
If the Two-Minute Rule feels forced, try this: do it for two minutes
and then stop.
1.10.3.20. Underline on page 135
you must stop after two minutes.
1.10.3.21. Underline on page 136
The secret is to always stay below the point where it
feels like work.
1.10.3.22. Underline on page 136
“The best way is to always stop when you are going good,”
1.10.3.23. Underline on page 136
You’re not worried about getting in shape. You’re focused on
becoming the type of person who doesn’t miss workouts. You’re taking
the smallest action that confirms the type of person you want to be.
1.10.3.24. Underline on page 136
everyone is
consumed by the end goal.
1.10.3.25. Underline on page 136
once you’ve established the habit and you’re showing
up each day, you can combine the Two-Minute Rule with a technique
we call habit shaping to scale your habit back up toward your ultimate
goal.
1.10.3.26. Underline on page 138
Standardize before you optimize. You can’t improve a habit that
doesn’t exist.
1.10.4. 14: How to Make Good Habits Inevitable and Bad Habits Impossible
1.10.4.1. Underline on page 139
Sometimes success is less about making good habits easy and more
about making bad habits hard.
1.10.4.2. Underline on page 139
make it difficult.
1.10.4.3. Underline on page 139
A commitment device is a choice you make in the present that
controls your actions in the future. It is a way to lock in future
behavior, bind you to good habits, and restrict you from bad ones.
1.10.4.4. Underline on page 140
change the task such that it requires more work to get
out of the good habit than to get started on it.
1.10.4.5. Underline on page 141
The best way to break a bad habit is to make it impractical to do.
Increase the friction until you don’t even have the option to act.
1.10.4.6. Underline on page 143
When you automate as much of your life as possible, you can spend
your effort on the tasks machines cannot do yet.
1.10.4.7. Underline on page 143
Each habit that we
hand over to the authority of technology frees up time and energy to
pour into the next stage of growth.
1.10.4.8. Underline on page 143
“Civilization advances by extending the
number of operations we can perform without thinking about them.”
1.10.4.9. Underline on page 143
the power of technology can work against us as well.
1.10.4.10. Underline on page 143
Binge-watching becomes a habit because you have to put more effort in
to stop looking at the screen than to continue doing so.
1.10.4.11. Underline on page 143
autoplay
1.10.4.12. Underline on page 143
When
the effort required to act on your desires becomes effectively zero, you
can find yourself slipping into whatever impulse arises at the moment.
The downside of automation is that we can find ourselves jumping
from easy task to easy task without making time for more difficult, but
ultimately more rewarding, work.
1.10.4.13. Underline on page 144
Every Monday, my assistant would reset
the passwords on all my social media accounts, which logged me out
on each device. All week I worked without distraction. On Friday, she
would send me the new passwords. I had the entire weekend to enjoy
1.10.4.14. Underline on page 144
After I
removed the mental candy from my environment, it became much
easier to eat the healthy stuff.
1.11. THE 4TH LAW: Make It Satisfying
1.11.1. 15: The Cardinal Rule of Behavior Change
1.11.1.1. Underline on page 148
“It is a lot easier for people to adopt
a product that provides a strong positive sensory signal, for example
the mint taste of toothpaste, than it is to adopt a habit that does not
provide pleasurable sensory feedback, like flossing one’s teeth.
1.11.1.2. Underline on page 149
We are more likely to repeat a behavior when the experience is
satisfying. This is entirely logical. Feelings of pleasure—even minor
ones
1.11.1.3. Underline on page 149
We are more likely to repeat a behavior when the experience is
satisfying. This is entirely logical. Feelings of pleasure—even minor
ones
1.11.1.4. Underline on page 149
well—are signals that tell the brain: “This feels good. Do this again,
next time.”
1.11.1.5. Underline on page 150
We are not looking for just any type of
satisfaction. We are looking for immediate satisfaction.
1.11.1.6. Underline on page 150
immediate-return environment
1.11.1.7. Underline on page 150
your actions instantly deliver
clear and immediate outcomes.
1.11.1.8. Underline on page 150
delayed-return environment
1.11.1.9. Underline on page 150
you
can work for years before your actions deliver the intended payoff.
1.11.1.10. Underline on page 150
It is only recently—during the last five hundred years or so—that
society has shifted to a predominantly delayed-return environment.*
1.11.1.11. Underline on page 151
after
thousands of generations in an immediate-return environment, our
brains evolved to prefer quick payoffs to long-term ones.
1.11.1.12. Underline on page 151
time inconsistency.
1.11.1.13. Underline on page 151
the way your brain evaluates rewards is inconsistent across
time.* You value the present more than the future.
1.11.1.14. Underline on page 151
A reward that is certain right now is typically
worth more than one that is merely possible in the future. But
occasionally, our bias toward instant gratification causes problems.
1.11.1.15. Underline on page 151
With our bad habits, the
immediate outcome usually feels good, but the ultimate outcome feels
bad. With good habits, it is the reverse: the immediate outcome is
unenjoyable, but the ultimate outcome feels good.
1.11.1.16. Underline on page 152
the costs of your good habits are in the present.
The costs of your bad habits are in the future.
1.11.1.17. Underline on page 152
most people know that delaying gratification is
the wise approach.
1.11.1.18. Underline on page 152
But these outcomes are seldom top-of-
mind at the decisive moment.
1.11.1.19. Underline on page 152
Thankfully, it’s possible to train yourself
to delay gratification—but
1.11.1.20. Underline on page 153
In a perfect world, the reward for a good habit is the habit itself. In
the real world, good habits tend to feel worthwhile only after they have
provided you with something. Early on, it’s all sacrifice.
1.11.1.21. Underline on page 153
It’s only months later,
1.11.1.22. Underline on page 153
that it becomes easier to
exercise for its own sake.
1.11.1.23. Underline on page 153
In the beginning, you need a reason to stay
on track.
1.11.1.24. Underline on page 153
immediate rewards are essential. They keep you
excited while the delayed rewards accumulate in the background.
1.11.1.25. Underline on page 153
here—when we’re discussing
immediate rewards—is the ending of a behavior. The ending of any
experience is vital because we tend to remember it more than other
phases. You want the ending of your habit to be satisfying.
1.11.1.26. Underline on page 153
Immediate reinforcement can be especially helpful when dealing
with habits of avoidance, which are behaviors you want to stop doing.
1.11.1.27. Underline on page 153
It can be hard to feel
satisfied when there is no action in the first place. All you’re doing is
resisting temptation, and there isn’t much satisfying about that.
1.11.1.28. Underline on page 153
One solution is to turn the situation on its head. You want to make
avoidance visible. Open a savings account and label it for something
you want—maybe
1.11.1.29. Underline on page 153
Whenever you pass on a purchase,
put the same amount of money in the account.
1.11.1.30. Underline on page 154
it is important to select short-term rewards
that reinforce your identity rather than ones that conflict with it.
1.11.1.31. Underline on page 154
Eventually, as intrinsic rewards like a better mood, more energy,
and reduced stress kick in, you’ll become less concerned with chasing
the secondary reward.
1.11.1.32. Underline on page 154
The identity itself becomes the reinforcer. You
do it because it’s who you are and it feels good to be you.
1.11.1.33. Underline on page 154
The more a
habit becomes part of your life, the less you need outside
encouragement to follow through. Incentives can start a habit. Identity
sustains a habit.
1.11.1.34. Underline on page 154
it takes time for the evidence to accumulate and a new
identity to emerge.
1.11.2. 16: How to Stick with Good Habits Every Day
1.11.2.1. Underline on page 156
Making progress is satisfying, and visual measures—like moving
paper clips or hairpins or marbles—provide clear evidence of your
progress.
1.11.2.2. Underline on page 156
they reinforce your behavior and add a little bit of
immediate satisfaction to any activity.
1.11.2.3. Underline on page 157
“Don’t break the chain” is a powerful mantra.
1.11.2.4. Underline on page 158
Recording your last action creates a trigger that can initiate your next
one.
1.11.2.5. Underline on page 158
Research has shown that people who track their progress
1.11.2.6. Underline on page 158
are all more likely to improve than those who don’t.
1.11.2.7. Underline on page 158
Habit tracking also keeps you honest. Most of us have a distorted
view of our own behavior. We think we act better than we do.
1.11.2.8. Underline on page 158
Measurement offers one way to overcome our blindness to our own
behavior and notice what’s really going on each day.
1.11.2.9. Underline on page 158
The most effective form of motivation is progress. When we get a
signal that we are moving forward, we become more motivated to
continue down that path.
1.11.2.10. Underline on page 158
habit tracking can have an
addictive effect on motivation.
1.11.2.11. Underline on page 158
When you’re feeling
down, it’s easy to forget about all the progress you have already made.
Habit tracking provides visual proof of your hard work—a
1.11.2.12. Underline on page 158
the empty square you see each
morning can motivate you to get started because you don’t want to lose
your progress by breaking the streak.
1.11.2.13. Underline on page 158
Tracking can become its own
form of reward.
1.11.2.14. Underline on page 159
Habit tracking also helps keep your eye on the ball: you’re focused
on the process rather than the result.
1.11.2.15. Underline on page 159
In summary, habit tracking (1) creates a visual cue that can remind
you to act, (2) is inherently motivating because you see the progress
you are making and don’t want to lose it, and (3) feels satisfying
whenever you record another successful instance of your habit.
Furthermore, habit tracking provides visual proof that you are casting
votes for the type of person you wish to become, which is a delightful
form of immediate and intrinsic gratification.*
1.11.2.16. Underline on page 159
many people resist the idea of tracking and measuring.
It can feel like a burden because it forces you into two habits: the habit
you’re trying to build and the habit of tracking it.
1.11.2.17. Underline on page 159
What can we do to make tracking easier?
1.11.2.18. Underline on page 159
First, whenever possible, measurement should be automated.
1.11.2.19. Underline on page 160
Second, manual tracking should be limited to your most important
habits. It is better to consistently track one habit than to sporadically
track ten.
1.11.2.20. Underline on page 160
Second, manual tracking should be limited to your most important
habits. It is better to consistently track one habit than to sporadically
track ten.
1.11.2.21. Underline on page 160
Finally, record each measurement immediately after the habit
occurs. The completion of the behavior is the cue to write it down.
1.11.2.22. Underline on page 160
habit-stacking
1.11.2.23. Underline on page 160
After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [TRACK MY HABIT].
1.11.2.24. Underline on page 160
No matter how consistent you are with your habits, it is inevitable that
life will interrupt you at some point. Perfection is not possible.
1.11.2.25. Underline on page 160
rule: never miss twice.
1.11.2.26. Underline on page 161
The first mistake is never the one that ruins you. It is the spiral of
repeated mistakes that follows. Missing once is an accident. Missing
twice is the start of a new habit.
1.11.2.27. Underline on page 161
Anyone
can have a bad performance, a bad workout, or a bad day at work. But
when successful people fail, they rebound quickly. The breaking of a
habit doesn’t matter if the reclaiming of it is fast.
1.11.2.28. Underline on page 161
I think this principle is so important that I’ll stick to it even if I can’t
do a habit as well or as completely as I would like. Too often, we fall
into an all-or-nothing cycle with our habits.
1.11.2.29. Underline on page 161
the problem is thinking that if you can’t do something
perfectly, then you shouldn’t do it at all.
1.11.2.30. Underline on page 161
You don’t realize how valuable it is to just show up on your bad (or
busy) days. Lost days hurt you more than successful days help you.
1.11.2.31. Underline on page 161
As Charlie Munger says, “The first rule of compounding:
Never interrupt it unnecessarily.”
1.11.2.32. Underline on page 161
This is why the “bad” workouts are often the most important ones.
Sluggish days and bad workouts maintain the compound gains you
accrued from previous good days. Simply doing something—ten
1.11.2.33. Underline on page 161
doing something—ten
squats, five sprints, a push-up, anything really—is huge.
1.11.2.34. Underline on page 161
it’s not always about what happens during the
workout. It’s about being the type of person who doesn’t miss
workouts.
1.11.2.35. Underline on page 161
It’s easy to train when you feel good, but it’s crucial to show
up when you don’t feel like it—even if you do less than you hope. Going
1.11.2.36. Underline on page 162
The dark side of tracking a particular behavior is that we become
driven by the number rather than the purpose behind it.
1.11.2.37. Underline on page 162
we optimize for what we measure. When
we choose the wrong measurement, we get the wrong behavior.
1.11.2.38. Underline on page 162
Goodhart’s Law.
1.11.2.39. Underline on page 162
“When a measure
becomes a target, it ceases to be a good measure.”
1.11.2.40. Underline on page 162
Measurement is only
useful when it guides you and adds context to a larger picture, not
when it consumes you.
1.11.2.41. Underline on page 163
we tend to overvalue numbers and
undervalue anything ephemeral, soft, and difficult to quantify. We
mistakenly think the factors we can measure are the only factors that
exist. But just because you can measure something doesn’t mean it’s
the most important thing. And just because you can’t measure
something doesn’t mean it’s not important at all.
1.11.3. 17: How an Accountability Partner Can Change Everything
1.11.3.1. Underline on page 166
we are more likely to repeat an experience when the ending
is satisfying, we are also more likely to avoid an experience when the
ending is painful.
1.11.3.2. Underline on page 166
If a failure is painful, it
gets fixed. If a failure is relatively painless, it gets ignored.
1.11.3.3. Underline on page 166
When the consequences are
severe, people learn quickly.
1.11.3.4. Underline on page 166
The more immediate the pain, the less likely the behavior.
1.11.3.5. Underline on page 166
We repeat bad habits because they serve us in some way, and that
makes them hard to abandon.
1.11.3.6. Underline on page 166
increase the speed of the punishment associated with
the behavior. There can’t be a gap between the action and the
consequences.
1.11.3.7. Underline on page 166
As soon as actions incur an immediate consequence, behavior
begins to change.
1.11.3.8. Underline on page 166
There is, of course, a limit to this. If you’re going to rely on
punishment to change behavior, then the strength of the punishment
must match the relative strength of the behavior it is trying to correct.
1.11.3.9. Underline on page 167
the more local, tangible, concrete, and immediate the
consequence, the more likely it is to influence individual behavior. The
more global, intangible, vague, and delayed the consequence, the less
likely it is to influence individual behavior.
1.11.3.10. Underline on page 167
As a society, we
collectively agree to abide by certain rules and then enforce them as a
group.
1.11.3.11. Underline on page 167
if you don’t follow along, you’ll be punished.
1.11.3.12. Underline on page 167
you can
create a habit contract to hold yourself accountable.
1.11.3.13. Underline on page 167
verbal or written agreement in which you state your commitment to a
particular habit and the punishment that will occur if you don’t follow
through.
1.11.3.14. Underline on page 167
find one or two people to act as your accountability
partners and sign off on the contract with you.
1.11.3.15. Underline on page 167
wrote up a
habit contract
1.11.3.16. Underline on page 168
laid out a road map for achieving his
ideal outcome:
1.11.3.17. Underline on page 168
wrote out each of the daily habits that would get him to
his goal.
1.11.3.18. Underline on page 168
listed the punishment if he failed:
1.11.3.19. Underline on page 168
My initial reaction was that a contract like this seemed overly
formal and unnecessary, especially the signatures.
1.11.3.20. Underline on page 168
signing the contract was an indication of
seriousness.
1.11.3.21. Underline on page 169
To make bad habits unsatisfying, your best option is to make them
painful in the moment. Creating a habit contract is a straightforward
way to do exactly that.
1.11.3.22. Underline on page 169
Suddenly, you are not only failing to uphold your promises to yourself,
but also failing to uphold your promises to others.
1.11.3.23. Underline on page 169
We are always trying to present our best selves to the world.
1.11.3.24. Underline on page 169
We care
about the opinions of those around us because it helps if others like us.
This is precisely why getting an accountability partner or signing a
habit contract can work so well.
1.12. ADVANCED TACTICS: How to Go from Being Merely Good to Being Truly Great endofnotes
1.12.1. 18: The Truth About Talent (When Genes Matter and When They Don’t)
1.12.2. 19: The Goldilocks Rule: How to Stay Motivated in Life and Work
1.12.3. 20: The Downside of Creating Good Habits
1.12.4. Conclusion: The Secret to Results That Last
1.13. Appendix
1.13.1. What Should You Read Next?
1.13.2. Little Lessons from the Four Laws
1.13.3. How to Apply These Ideas to Business
1.13.4. How to Apply These Ideas to Parenting
1.14. Acknowledgments
1.15. Notes
1.16. Index
1.17. About the Author
1.18. The Habits Cheat Sheet
1.18.1. The 1st Law: Make It Obvious (Cue)
- Fill out the Habits Scorecard. Write down your current habits to become aware of them.
- Use implementation intentions: “I will [BEHAVIOR] at [TIME] in [LOCATION].”
- Use habit stacking: “After [CURRENT HABIT], I will [NEW HABIT].”
- Design your environment. Make the cues of good habits obvious and visible.
1.18.2. The 2nd Law: Make It Attractive (Craving)
- Use temptation bundling. Pair an action you want to do with an action you need to do.
- Join a culture where your desired behavior is the normal behavior.
- Create a motivation ritual. Do something you enjoy immediately before a difficult habit.
1.18.3. The 3rd Law: Make It Easy (Response)
- Reduce friction. Decrease the number of steps between you and your good habits.
- Prime the environment. Prepare your environment to make future actions easier
- Master the decisive moment. Optimize the small choices that deliver outsized impact.
- Use the Two-Minute Rule. Downscale your habits until they can be done in two minutes or less.
- Automate your habits. Invest in technology and onetime purchases that lock in future behavior.
1.18.4. The 4th Law: Make It Satisfying (Reward)
Use reinforcement. Give yourself an immediate reward when you complete your habit.
1.18.5. Inversion of the 1st law: Make it invisible (Cue)
- Reduce exposure. Remove the cues of your bad habits from your environment.
1.18.6. Inversion of the 2nd law: Make it unattractive (Craving)
- Reframe your mindset. Highlight the benefits of avoiding your bad habits.
1.18.7. Inversion of the 3rd law: Make it difficult (Response)
- Increase friction. Increase the number of steps between you and your bad habits.
- Use a commitment device. Restrict your future choices to the ones that benefit you.
1.18.8. Inversion of the 4th law: Make it unsatisfying (Reward)
- Get an accountability partner. Ask someone to watch your behavior.
- Create a habit contract. Make the costs of your bad habits public and painful
1.19. The Problem With Building Good Habits | Stephan Joppich
our experience has taught us to make no long-term promises about staying sober. We have found it more realistic — and more successful — to say, “I am not taking a drink just for today.”
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